When in doubt choose your kid . There will be plenty of time later to choose work .
I have stood by this all through the growing days of my angels .
Parenting is an emotional roller coaster . We face a series of questions in our mind every single day .
Am I doing it right ?
Is there a perfect parenting technique ?
What are the positive ways to help them cope with the world around them?
Who is right me or the society?
Yes I have asked millions of questions and tried to seek answers ,finally found one pit stop solution .
“YOU ARE THE SOLUTION , YOUR CHILD IS YOUR TEACHER , YOUR FAMILY IS THE SCHOOL OF KNOWLEDGE , AND KNOWLEDGE IS YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM “
Understanding the science of wellbeing and following your heart would help you walk through this journey with confidence , empowerment and a heart filled with joy .
Hi I am Sandhana ,
I grew up with my parents , 2 sisters , 13 cousins , aunts , uncles , grandparents , and 6 dogs . Yes ! Before I became a mom, I thought I knew all about parenting , various parenting styles and the pros and cons of each technique and method . But, the day the little angels of mine fell into my arms I knew , I knew nothing about being a MOM .
The only clarity I had was , ‘ I am going to be super positive and all set to take this ride with my pillar of strength , my husband ‘
My decision was to follow my girls , get totally attuned to them , pick every cue they signalled , learn and find all the missing pieces of the puzzles through books , family , friends and science . I made a clear commitment to use knowledge and the MOM”s Intuition to try the path of parenting .
TITBITS ABOUT ME
Had the most wonderful experience of being the Founder and Director of my Pre school for 2 decades . A god given oppurtunity to nurture and learn from more than 1500 toddlers and to observe 1500 plus styles of parenting .
Observing each curious mind and soul combined with studying and reading the science behind a happy mind made me the strong and proud mother I am .
- I’m an extrovert , my background of growing up in a big family gives me the love and confidence to speak to an infant and a grandparent with the equal enthusiasm.
- I believe kindness and empathy can be intentionally fostered in our children and that is one of the best gifts we can give them.
- I believe the value of child development research is not in telling us what is “right” or “wrong” with our parenting, but in helping us to see our children through a new lens.
‘CHILDREN SEE MAGIC BECAUSE THEY LOOK FOR IT , IT IS UPTO TO US TO GIVE THEM THE RIGHT SPACE TO VENTURE AND EXPLORE AND FIND THEIR MAGIC ‘.